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Neurodivergent Burnout: When Trying Harder Isn't the Answer
If you have ADHD, autism, or significant sensory sensitivity, you may know what it feels like to keep pushing until suddenly you can't. You are exhausted. Your patience is gone. Simple tasks feel enormous. Noise, clutter, interruptions, decisions, work, parenting, or social demands become harder to tolerate. You may struggle to think clearly, regulate your emotions, or do things that normally come easily. And then comes the guilt: Why can't I just handle this? Research on aut
charlottenadler
Oct 82 min read


When Your Child Holds It Together at School--and Falls Apart at Home
Your child gets through the school day—and then falls apart. The tears. The irritability. The shutdown. The explosive reaction to homework. The complete exhaustion over something that seems small. And you may be thinking: “I know my child is capable. I know they're trying. So what is happening?” Sometimes the behavior we see at the end of the day is a clue that the demands of the school day are exceeding a child's current capacity. Children with ADHD, dyslexia, learning diffe
charlottenadler
Jun 232 min read


The 90-Second Rule: What It Really Means for Your Emotions and Your Relationship
You may have heard that emotions only last 90 seconds. That can sound unrealistic—especially during conflict. So what does this idea actually mean? What is the 90-second rule? The concept comes from neuroscience research showing that when something emotionally triggering happens, the body releases stress chemicals like adrenaline and cortisol. This initial emotional surge lasts about 60–90 seconds. After that, the body can begin to calm—if nothing continues to re-trigge
charlottenadler
Jan 52 min read


Big Feelings and Big Hearts: Parenting High Needs Children
The impact on you. The impact on your relationship. It's one of those days where you feel like you can’t even be honest with anyone about the level of intensity of your children and their needs. Maybe you have all the tools in the world and you know what to do, or maybe you don’t, but the feeling is the same—it’s beyond hard, you’re tired, and you are plain burnout. Raising neurodivergent children can be hard. It can feel overwhelming. There can be countless parenting convers
charlottenadler
Nov 19, 20254 min read


ADHD Couples Therapy
Why Working With an LMFT Who Specializes in ADHD Can Shift Your Entire Relationship System Many couples seek therapy because ADHD is creating stress, conflict, or confusion in their relationship. What they often don’t realize is that ADHD isn’t just an individual issue—it’s a relational one. And that’s why working with a therapist who understands both ADHD and the entire relationship system makes such a significant difference. A therapist who knows ADHD but not systems the
charlottenadler
Nov 19, 20252 min read
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